信

你有權利選擇比較信任誰
對誰比較有信心
我不能強逼你

你覺得是對的
應該的
就去做吧

反正我一早安排給你的計劃
她已經逐步逐步在實行了
既然你不願意做
就讓她去做吧

反正對我而言沒差

What's Wrong with the Communication?

I've said this to many people.

It's our responsibility to ensure people interpret what we said correctly. We can't always blame people for misunderstanding what we said, because a same sentence can be interpreted in a thousand ways by a thousand different people.

Before you would say "oh you misunderstand me", please make sure people understand you.

If misunderstanding happens again and again, then the problem is with the person who says, not the person who listens.

Unfortunately, when problem occurs, most people would not accept and admit the problem is with themselves, and tend to point the finger at others.

To Succeed, We Must First Know How To Fail.

Sometimes people thought success is simple - just copy the successful formula from the successful people. But often they forgot to copy the failed formula as well. 

Without knowing, understanding, or even experiencing the failure by ourselves, we would not appreciate the success, and start taking things for granted. 

狠心

我也曾被如此對待過
不止一次

可是
再怎麼生氣
我都無法狠下心掉頭離去
不管她死活

擔心總是戰勝狠心
結果我一次又一次地追上去
電話一直撥
簡訊一直發

只怪我心太軟

如今
我領教到了
原來人可以如此狠心
或是說放心？

你說
我從不明白你的感受
可是
我的感受
你又可曾明白？

所以說
人總是自私的

逃

有時候真的很想躲起來
任性一下
不接電話
不回簡訊

可是我辦不到
因為擔心總是戰勝狠心

只怪我心太軟

溝通

溝通
除了聆聽
也必須表達

如果一方不表達
另一方該怎麼聆聽？

如果因為一方先表達
而被說成是不聆聽
那麼
該由誰來先表達？
該由誰來先聆聽？

如果咕噥埋怨也被說成是挑事端
那麼寧可只聆聽不表達

事實與真相

如果我無意間揭穿了謊言
我不想知道事實是什麼

如果一個猜測一個比喻
也可以牽扯到信任
甚至不忠
那就隨他去吧

如果同一個理由
一而再再而三地發生
我實在無法避免這樣自然而然的猜測

如果一個原為避免中傷的猜測
居然無意間成了射中傷口的暗箭

無話可說

遺憾

十二年前
她不告而別
驟然離去

試想
如果我是他
如果我沉睡不醒
如果我數個小時過後醒來才發現數十個未接電話和簡訊
如果我錯過了見她最後一面的機會

這種遺憾
我不想要