信

你有權利選擇比較信任誰
對誰比較有信心
我不能強逼你

你覺得是對的
應該的
就去做吧

反正我一早安排給你的計劃
她已經逐步逐步在實行了
既然你不願意做
就讓她去做吧

反正對我而言沒差

What's Wrong with the Communication?

I've said this to many people.

It's our responsibility to ensure people interpret what we said correctly. We can't always blame people for misunderstanding what we said, because a same sentence can be interpreted in a thousand ways by a thousand different people.

Before you would say "oh you misunderstand me", please make sure people understand you.

If misunderstanding happens again and again, then the problem is with the person who says, not the person who listens.

Unfortunately, when problem occurs, most people would not accept and admit the problem is with themselves, and tend to point the finger at others.

To Succeed, We Must First Know How To Fail.

Sometimes people thought success is simple - just copy the successful formula from the successful people. But often they forgot to copy the failed formula as well. 

Without knowing, understanding, or even experiencing the failure by ourselves, we would not appreciate the success, and start taking things for granted.